Sunday, June 26, 2011

I can not forget you

XuSong-" admit ": I take you recall ever happy, you just tell me don't persistent!

JiangYuYang-" the hard gentleness ": I told myself no cry tears, but can't help!!!!!

Guang liang-" the agreement ": I still remember our agreement, the provisions of the life happiness!!!!! I love you more than before!

Guang liang-" the fairy tale ": from you say you love me later, I sky stars are bright.

Today is your birthday. Dear: you happy? Not every year in your side, the past still want to later I become a house, every year to help your birthday, want to come now after the man can no longer be me. You said my birthday, I wish I would also say don't, you in my heart I wish a good, I'm afraid I would cry. Dear: you know what? Send you the information I cry, can you see my writing, but you see my tears?

DEAR: here I wish you a happy birthday!

Six zhe-the I know I don't understand love ": looking forward to you can see no you me a blank

Six zhe-" the forget your good ": when time evolution into poison, but I can forget you

Lost in the net

Recently, I can sleep through the night, I like a happy every day in all kinds of things before swallow, others a smile, a look all let me happy very long, and memorable. I smile in the shallow people, in the rose slightly on the corners of the mouth, to realize the jasmine lightly scent. I am glad to say: "every day there are so happy, life is a very simple original."

But, really start? My mood disappeared, I in this no snow in the winter for the hard, looking at the cold winter the dead branches, see the residual leaf full of depression and sad. I started feeling of south north of the dry freezing rain water, experience has a thing mercilessly. I wake up in the middle of the night, in the dark of night in a daze, in you who stole my sleep?

Is that you? You must not mess with me; Is that you? You just continue to blunt I smile, just look much a cold and resentment; Is that you? My phone didn't you as always news; Is that you? My daily will to greeting; Are you? Where are you? Oh!!!!! I know, I remember, because of you, and must be for you! You stole my thoughts. My fate ah, I is a swallow, the sky is I fly field, didn't want to provoke you pierces each other to each other, but heart. So far, far away at looking at you, helpless. Also with a cold heart, in you I here can never cross a mining the dike. You clearly know that I am the swallow, you are a fish.

Saturday, June 25, 2011

I understand my father until I become father

I went to the university, father to shenyang send me. At the station, the train was open, father and crowded, to my side, told me: "time will come out, look for your elder sister around, if met, he told her, dad don't stop her, if she like it, and marry that man, as long as she can come back often look at me." I suddenly heart in a acid, my father is a bad temper, and proud, conceited people, to elder sister, father seldom lost his temper.
The elder sister's mother died in her early, father was five, and took a wife, and gave birth to me. Elder sister and mother of the friction has not broken, father dilemma. Elder sister graduated third day didn't run away, itself to the shenyang elder sister-in-law.
I go home to find her elder sister-in-law, elder sister-in-law said that she had no words for years. I went to the hospital, she worked on night market, hotel, the attendant, street supermarket put stall, the elder sister of the vegetable market vendors... All have no sight of her. I think, if she and the man together, go to other cities?
Sophomore year, one evening in late autumn, my classmates and I go after examination after eat wonton, talking about the content. A thin woman came up to the top, I took the chopsticks, was about to eat, suddenly saw her. She is put another bowl wonton to put her face before the students, sallow, eye socket, the bleaching in casually hair tied back, like a punk withered of weeds. I seized him thin arms, was called out: "elder sister."
So DuoNian, I was the first call her elder sister. Her into the bowl of a hand, "hua" fell to the floor with a, the eyes have no my memory is stubborn, looked me up and down for a long time, just call me: "life?"
She has been married, from a dish just coolie, starts later met and her work at the same hotel a jilin guy. Others very honesty, mean or two-the luggage moved in together, and colleagues in the hotel eat meal, even become a home. After getting married, two men quit my job and put the wonton booth, and barely make a living. She gave birth to a little girl, still less than two years.
I blame her: why so long all not contact with home? Don't you know dad more worried about you! She didn't speak in tears, of lashes.
Father received my phone, the second day will come. I take him to the wonton vendor's stand, kept away from a distance, the father stopped, looked at the kiosk busy she, suddenly squat in the sidewalk, like a little kid blare into tears.
She saw his father, for half a day, RuDong lips, also don't know what to say. A little girl LieLieJuJu over, young voice to childishness asked, "mommy, why are you crying? Who is he?" She hurriedly pull the child, walk to her father and said, "call, quick call master......"
Father picked up the child and LaoLei already, face.
Later, she said to me, do not keep son don't know parents grace. Because of the children of her own, she knew father is actually so love her. So DuoNian, her formidable, her wayward father, just the fear in my will, after ignoring her. So, she will use extreme ways that reminds father adore her.
In fact, the palm is meat, back where parents can ignore their children?

Actually need a man to depend on

Some people think that I say this, a weak, actually otherwise, because is people need a rely on in life, because there are a lot of things will make people feel grieved, also will be exhausted, will be very tired and need a can rely on a place on and take a rest. Depend on not women's patent, a man also needs, sometimes will need more than women.
We often hear female people said, looking for a solid arm on a depend, get a comfort and solid. The man is actually need, he is not looking for a more than a solid arm, but find out a can let oneself in the rest of the soft, not solid but warm habitat.
The man on the woman is different from depend on, his rely on from a gently the greeting, comes from a simple intimacy, also comes from woman's a coy, will also take care of grievance from women get a comfort.
Sometimes men need to women's nagging, also need to woman, need more women complain of endless said they the experience of a day. You may see a man lying in your own woman arms, the listener woman's telling, is like a child listened to my mother's story as much as serious, and there are so many sleep. They listen to women to speak, not to know what, just want to listen to music, as well as enjoy a from the people they love the express the bottom of the heart.
Men need to understand more, need some concern, even if it is a trivial asked also is a kind of good.
Some say hate our women's nagging, this is not false, because the woman is the man with the nagging the subject, that is really can make men think that is not in listening to your woman, but to tell in a noise.
Man still afraid of loneliness. Even fear than women. They're afraid of your women no longer talk, and no more was said heart words. They fear his woman's far away, even a very short time to leave will also shaky.
The men also comes from on the feelings of the persistent and loyalty, they feel emotional persistent and loyalty than anything important, because they fear most is backyard, because that would make them never without a belief, that is the loss of the meaning of life. The meaning of life is from human nature of faithful. Once men feel the lack of human, then they may feel that the world is no longer have any can trust of thing, so will become a walking corpse, from now on there won't be any of the happy.
The man from the respect, still rely on each other's emotional they think the respect of the second only to the feelings of the faithful and dedication. They think all the feelings are from the persistent loyalty and respect each other. The respect from more subtle, unseen is a solemn ceremony. Perhaps is a birthday gift, the simple perhaps is a simple manner, all is the respect. Sometimes they don't need so specific things, only need a caring heart. This man is vanity and also very practical.
The man in the most sorrow and loss of time, will also be like, like the woman cried, that is only an anger, this time need a woman motion-the touch a head, say some words of comfort, don't go away, and he enjoy silent, this is enough.
The man sometimes also very troublesome, but not as a woman so really, is secretly a mouth, they won't say.
The man was weak, because they bear will inherit more than women, even if is a strong women than men also won't have more than men suffer because of man is the god to make a need to take the carrier, you won't get away!!!!!

The way I love you

Sit at the same table that year like me? Then I is the most promising one. I don't understand what is there worth she likes. And she said: "I like your writing those little note, all have it with me, you and the other boys are not the same, have a kind of creativity and innate sense of humor."

That year, it was the age of the green.

I'm in the class of the famous bad students, often and some don't go to school around the rascals. The key middle school solely by the relationship between the parents to a top school, bottom line, I first. In the more than one thousand students from ranked first is not an easy thing.

Future a slim, I only wish air force to school recruit pilot, maybe I can go to the army.

The teacher in charge put her arrangement and I do sit at the same table, I knew must be mother looked for the teacher. Mother's elaborate, she wants to study the good girl drive me.

She really learn well, top grade in our class, the top three, often go to all kinds of competitions, or not in the school to the first payment.

But I very much to her hostility. I always hate good student, and she is. Listen to the teacher's words, or a teacher's right-hand man, often to the copy room in the examination paper printing.

Class I write note to her: "you know the story of Snow White?"

I thought she did not, but she listens in note wrote: "know below."

"She got married after the children you know who that is?"

I was deliberately and her trouble, and she gas go, I can a table, that way, and I was free, look at the sky, listen to birds, much good!!!!!

"I don't know." She wrote, "she gave birth to a kid?"

She finally fell into the trap! I wrote: "white snow princess gave birth to a girl, called Cinderella, she was very disappointed himself had so ugly children, so, and the prince divorced."

After I finish to her, she PuChi laugh, just be the teacher saw, the teacher say: "smile what laugh?"

She was ordered to stand the a class. But I did not wish to go. She gas

The day after, she made me write my homework, I won't, she let I copied her, she showed me she notes, give I see she bought review material. I say you don't like the savior as to save me, I won't appreciate you.

A long distance relationship is very happy

There are many people who don't agree with, undertake after all, can't take care of each other, in the heart of the close there is always lost."

But a lot of people do a long distance relationship is happy, more than anyone happiness.
Two men can be bored with all day together, is very happy, they rarely lonely, but rarely has long thoughts. Miss itself is a kind of biggest happiness, remember jiraiya adult ever celebrity said, the one who miss you is where you are.
Have a long distance relationship is lucky, because you have a willing to with you keep trying, you have a can and you have the same dream of heart, persistence and you have a strong to have the courage to challenge the damned the distance of the love, this isn't a kind of happiness?
Whenever a person quiet, I thought a man like you in stick to this so fragile love, that kind of warm, not a long distance relationship is unable to realize, that is a kind of silent communication, is the heart of unconditional trust. In the boundless huge crowd, can find such an unconditional trust their own people, isn't this a kind of happiness?
Two people often together, will be hard to avoid the effect, they will often eat together, go shopping together, together with the class, but the but often neglect the mind in communication. For a true love, communication is the most important, it can maintain the freshness of love, can let them know now how love of a man. Only understand each other love, don't have a misunderstanding, wouldn't have lost love. So, a long distance people have the advantage of love, they see a long time not face, and have worry, a sad in the phone, they talk to every conversation are equivalent to an open heart, because each other to understand each other's miss, so, between them there are few the misunderstanding, each other all knew understanding, understand that the tolerance. This isn't a kind of happiness?
Sweet words also is the lubricant right, no love a couple can have different lovers like that have the chance to say sweet words, various every time the phone, always accidentally can say some "miss you", "you" "love you," even if few words as well will say, because each other love, because it currently only "language" such a tool can express their feelings, because an expression of love, actually all single. So, can keep a long distance relationship is deep love, the love in the time of the river plain but the intense, I think this is the envy of all people would love. With such love, don't you not happiness?
In love I most afraid is distance, as long as the real love, is always a together. Yes, distance in so deep in love? What also is not. If you for a long distance relationship is easily broke up, 10 million don't put the blame for the SINS distance, you should be glad, his left a don't really love you, because in love before, distance truly is nothing. So, if your lover is in the distant place, don't feel lonely, don't feel that injustice, to rejoice, you use lonely and missing for a true love, that is the most welcome to love other people.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

The seed of missing

When thoughts become a habit, the in the mind has a a melancholy of the seed, quiet taste of his own loneliness, face but always hung with faint smile.

Once in many, I tell yourself, if you can't change what, that try to keep this a miss, a kind of light bitter. And this missing is the end of hope, or the beginning of despair, who to don't know. But I still be grateful, thank god ever let you come near me, let me in this world, at least in my heart and a miss.

The long night, rain, put down one day all stained the tired, quiet lie on the bed, open the music of their own, and calm in two springs "tune in on the, I feel that the lonely street a old man hobbled, silently walk through the darkness, indulge in the space, to gallop in my heart from the time of healing, gave me the soul for comfort, perched rain makes me think the true existence, the night that I had a my space. My preference for the night from you I can't part of feelings, but I can't let you know, I don't want it can become your trap. If I give you good, that I would rather far from you, don't let you see my sadness.

Blue, ChangTing night of chilling showers, early jehiel, and after the rain of the night, no more deep Jiao month, no wind, some just that a quiet, YangLiuAn XiaoFeng canyue, give a person with desolate beauty, I opened his arms, eyes shut, breathing the fresh air, as if the whole world to engulf me, I gently spinning, like a kind of dream, the dream I take your hand, quietly and you stare at, then embrace, the relatively light with you into the night sky of lingering, far away the two faraway star of the stars, like your eyes look, a breath of air stroke, I feel you understanding laugh of happiness, the strands in the sky hair, I hugged the night.

Silence and deep, the seeds of thoughts began to sprout. I use the words you exist record of beauty! Miss spread, eyes clouded with tears, I know that this day will continue to be, and you will not have this to look forward to? I am unable to try what, I only have, have the thoughts with subtle habit, although very hard work, but I may still waiting, I won't let you stop, for I stay a little while. Heart endure pain, lonely and lonely, I'll silly wait for to the old, but you never know!!!!!

Learn to compromise

A person in the life, learn to compromise is a very important thing.
Learn to compromise is a kind of human virtues. To make the car on his way to the driver safe driving, and regulations have "comity three first" the request, also have "better stop very, not to rob a SEC." the warnings of the tip. So, a person in the life long road, such as car are on the march, to make life as peace, saying to the world also have "justifiable also to make three points" advise remind. Concession is a kind of tolerance and goodwill of people friendly virtue the concrete expression, and most can reflect a person's mind valley's character and be the basic standard. The beauty of heart, pay attention to calm towards others, and everything in the principle problem is good at self-effacing another person, does not fear the losses and be wronged, even "take". In daily study, work and life, in his personality sincerely with people doing things, and constantly improve the self-discipline to create a happy happy life.
Learn to compromise is a kind of be the strategy. With many of the ancient and modern, there is a pity, because of the lack of tolerance between people and intrigue, competing for concessions, there are only so many, the unfortunate tragedy. Compromise is a very profound philosophical thinking of the right decisions. Originally, the people not reasonable, is a disadvantage. But people know only reasonable, is a blind spot. Little imagine, day Yin qing, has the rivers and mountains, a month of a round, military offensive defense have. The long drought there will be rain, mountain is water, the month lacks necessary circle, defense is ready to attack. Similarly, a person in the way of life, not only with flowers and applause, and setbacks and lessons, inevitably have a. A strategy, stand high, seeing far away, to the view of dialectics and method of communicating, often make complex running the serious situation of ease, at the right moment appropriately handling interpersonal contradiction and conflict, good advice, to create a harmony with the surrounding people study, work and life of the life good environment.
Learn to compromise is a kind of human wisdom. Want to make the oneself life the day happy and wonderful, be sure to be with their own intelligence efforts to make a life. In the life of every point, what to do, how to do? What not to do, how to do? Is very need wisdom and skills. A wise man, can come to life on the road of success and failure, poor and rich; To treat a friend and resentment have their own people, especially those who opposed themselves is the practice proves wrong against; To calm treat their advantages and disadvantages, victory over self. A person in the study, work and life can rationally do let say, and let things and the wisdom of life, is n the basic performance. Let the word is good, let harsh offensive words; Let things is good, let the world can hardly contain the matter; N is good, let more than their own and not their own people and against their people. Good at using wisdom in interpersonal activity in making compromises and concessions appropriate, which helps keep the mood to peace and quiet, also be helpful for the interpersonal harmony.
Learn to compromise is not not insist the principle. Compromise is not equal to regress, more is not equal to give up the principle. Tolerance in people's purpose is to give people think of time and improvement opportunities, giving in to the purpose of the people is better coordination and unity. Take a families, sheet is between husband and wife and her mother-in-law, between the reason is not pure long time ago now. For your peace, for high yielding. If both sides of the conflict have larger sensibly step back, all the better days. Clever people not to family members too regardless,, and very much to the household chores, take little sanity countermeasures and methods to self-surrender of aggressive mindset properly solve the contradiction, because good family patience and concessions to the family can bring a happy happy life atmosphere.
Learn to compromise, the key point is that everyone has strengths and weaknesses, don't always tried to reason your excellent, others poor; Right, others mistakes. Everyone's talents are limited and not able to all more than others. Don't everything, at times, everywhere, always my way or the highway, stubborn has seen, mercenary. Learn to look in a mirror, see my own shortcomings, often through self-examination, learn to broaden the mental capacity, make oneself have good manners and wide bosom. Stupid man is always to learn can't yield.